A science-based approach to transform daily overwhelm into calm, confident support for sustainable behavioral change.
Instead of focusing on controlling behavior, the Chaos Free® Method focuses on:
When these elements are in place, behavior begins to change naturally — because the child is learning critical life skills.
The foundation for learning to manage ADHD. When a child feels their parent truly “gets” them—understanding why some skills develop more slowly and some tasks feel harder—it changes everything. Families feel calmer, and relationships grow stronger.
Parents and children learning to work together to build life skills, problem-solving, and self-advocacy. Nothing builds confidence and independence faster than a child feeling like part of the solution—not the problem.
The steady, predictable flow of daily life created through simple, consistent routines—helping everyone know what to expect, move through the day with less stress, and build the skills needed for independence over time.
Mary has ADHD, too—which means she understands that many parents supporting their child are navigating similar challenges themselves. That’s why she designs her programs with short, focused video lessons and flexible ways to learn—including handouts, audio options, and closed captions—so parents can engage in a way that works with their brain.
A behavioral management training and coaching program that helps parents understand executive function challenges, like those associated with ADHD, and move from daily frustration to clarity, connection, and collaboration.
Parents learn brain-based perspectives and practical, step-by-step strategies to work with their child to support emotional regulation, build life skills, and create routines that truly work.
The result is less stress, stronger relationships, and a child steadily growing in confidence and independence within a more peaceful home.
A collaborative parent–student program that helps students develop academic systems while teaching parents how to support the process without power struggles. Students build ownership of their learning while parents gain clarity on how to help effectively.
Personalized coaching for families navigating ADHD-related challenges. Sessions focus on practical strategies, collaborative problem-solving, and building systems that support long-term success.
Mary Smith welcomes all those supporting neurodivergent children including:
If supporting a neurodivergent child is part of your life, this is a place for you.
Where children build the skills they need — and families rediscover the joy of growing together.